You'd think the hardest part of getting your child assessed would be the assessment itself. It's not. The hardest part is making the phone call, finally saying "something isn't right and I need help," and hearing the person on the other end say:
"Our next available appointment is in eight months."
Maybe twelve. Maybe eighteen.
Let that land for a second. Your child is having daily after-school meltdowns that shake the whole house. Their grades are in free fall, and every email from school hits like a body blow. You're lying awake from midnight to 4 AM, scrolling your phone for answers that aren't coming. And someone just told you — with practiced, professional calm — to take a number and wait.
I'm going to say something that might sound dramatic, but I mean every word: that is institutional negligence.
The System Isn't Slow. It's Broken.
Here's the thing nobody in the mental health industry wants to say out loud: the assessment system was not designed for families in crisis. It was designed for clinics that optimize for their own scheduling convenience, not for the parent whose kid just got suspended for the third time this semester.
And the data backs this up. Research published by the NIH shows that the average time to receive an ADHD diagnosis is 525 days — that's nearly a year and a half from the moment a parent says "something is wrong" to the moment someone actually confirms it (NIH, 2024). A year and a half of your child falling through the cracks while the system processes paperwork.
Meanwhile, the CDC's Youth Risk Behavior Survey shows that rates of persistent sadness and suicidal ideation among adolescents have increased by nearly 40% in the last decade. The crisis is now. The response must be now.
I spent four years working in hospital ERs before opening my practice. I've seen what happens when families wait. The anxiety doesn't pause. The school doesn't pause. The damage to your child's self-concept — the quiet, daily erosion of "I guess I'm just stupid" or "I guess I'm just bad" — that doesn't pause either.
"The logistical process of getting an assessment is a 'labyrinth' of extreme wait times, a difficult search for qualified providers, and poor communication from clinics."
That's not my opinion. That's a direct finding from the research literature, and it's the reality I hear from every single parent who calls our office. You've already navigated the labyrinth. You don't need someone to tell you to keep wandering.
We Built a Different Kind of Assessment
When I designed the assessment process at Enlitens, I started with a question that should be obvious but apparently isn't: What does this family actually need right now?
Not: "How do we fill our testing slots efficiently?" Not: "What's the most standardized battery we can run?" But: what does this family, in this moment, actually need?
The answer, almost always, is three things:
- Speed. Not eight months. Not twelve weeks. We can typically begin the intake and initial data-gathering within one to two weeks.
- Flexibility. We don't force your child into a single, exhausting 4-hour testing block. We break it into smaller, 60-90 minute sessions that work around your life and your child's capacity. Because a six-year-old melting down at hour three of a test isn't giving you valid data — it's giving you a misdiagnosis.
- Immediate support. The process itself is therapeutic. You get strategies, resources, and real answers from the very first session →. You don't wait for the final report to start getting help.
This isn't a radical idea. It's what the research actually says good assessment looks like.
"Considering psychological assessment to be a therapeutic intervention is a major paradigm shift in how assessment is typically viewed."
That paradigm shift? That's the foundation of everything we do. The assessment isn't a passive measurement you endure and then wait six weeks for a report. It's an active intervention that starts helping your family the moment you walk through the door — or log into telehealth from your couch. (Yes, we do assessments via telehealth →. Your couch is our office.)
Why Most Clinics Can't Do This
I'm not going to pretend this is easy. Most practices can't do what we do because they're built on a traditional model: big testing battery, one long day, written report six weeks later, see you never. That model works for the clinic's schedule. It doesn't work for your kid.
The traditional model also doesn't account for something I see constantly: your child is a different person at 9 AM versus 2 PM. They're a different person when they're rested versus exhausted, when they feel safe versus observed, when they've eaten lunch versus when they haven't. Cramming everything into one high-stakes session captures a snapshot, not a portrait.
Our collaborative approach → spreads the assessment across multiple sessions specifically so we can see the real kid — not the one performing under pressure.
What You're Actually Paying For Is Not a Test
When parents ask about the cost (and I get it — I wrote a whole separate post about why testing is expensive), I always say the same thing: you're not paying for a test. You're paying for a user manual for your child's brain.
Our reports don't just say "your child has ADHD." They explain how your child's brain works — their specific pattern of strengths, their specific pattern of struggles, and specific, actionable strategies for home, school, and life. We call it a Brain Guide, because that's what it is. It's the document you hand to the teacher, the pediatrician, the IEP team, and say: "This is who my kid actually is. Here is what they actually need."
Research supports this approach. The focus isn't just on diagnosis — it's on shaping the post-assessment plan around actual therapeutic goals like burnout recovery, permission to unmask, and building systems that work with the brain instead of against it.
You Don't Owe the System Your Patience
Here's what I know to be true from sitting across from hundreds of families: by the time you're searching for "ADHD assessment near me" at 1 AM, you've already waited too long. You've already watched your gut feeling get dismissed. You've already been told "let's wait and see" by someone who doesn't have to live it.
You don't need more waiting. You need someone who picks up the phone, listens to you describe what's happening, and says: "I hear you. Let's start."
That's what we do. No eight-month line. No labyrinth. No hope curdling into despair while the system gets its act together.
Your child's crisis is happening right now. The response has to happen right now, too.
