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Call 911 NowWe've explored the philosophy of our rebellion, the science that fuels it, and the clinical model that drives it. But none of that means a damn thing if it doesn't change your real, lived, everyday experience.
An "aha!" moment is the spark, not the fire. The fire is built with the small, consistent, and courageous actions you take day after day. This is where we get tactical.
This collection of guides is designed to be your field manual. It's for the moments you're standing in the trenches of your own life wondering, "Okay, but what the f*ck do I do now?" These are not abstract theories; they are practical, actionable tools for navigating a world that was not built for you.
This is the machinery of change. Each of these guides is a deep, powerful tool designed to give you a new framework and a practical plan for some of the most profound challenges of a neurodivergent life.
A Guide to Masking: Our deep dive into the single most costly survival strategy employed by neurodivergent people. We deconstruct what masking is, the devastating cognitive and physiological price it exacts, and provide a compassionate, step-by-step guide for how to begin to unmask safely and reclaim your authentic self.
A Guide to Burnout: This guide reframes burnout not as a personal failure, but as a predictable consequence of autonomic nervous system overload. We give you the tools to identify the specific sensory, social, and executive function drains in your life and create a practical, sustainable plan for managing your energy.
How We Use Assessment Tools (The Enlitens Way): A series of guides on how to transform pathologizing tests into instruments of empowerment. We show you how to use tools like the Brown EF/A Scales and the Adolescent/Adult Sensory Profile not to generate a score, but as a collaborative framework for inquiry and self-discovery.
Why We Don't Use the ADOS-2: A guide to informed dissent. To be an effective self-advocate, you need to know not just what to ask for, but what to say "no" to. This guide arms you with the scientific and ethical arguments against outdated, dehumanizing "gold standard" tests.
An "aha!" moment is the spark, not the fire. The fire is built with the small, consistent, and courageous actions you take day after day.
This is where theory becomes practice. Choose a guide below to equip yourself with the tools you need to thrive.
The invisible, crushing, full-time job of performing "normalcy." This is our deep dive into the neuroscience of masking, its devastating costs, and the safe, compassionate path toward reclaiming your authentic self.
Burnout is not a personal failure; it is a state of nervous system collapse. We deconstruct the science of burnout and offer a real path to sustainable recovery.
We use this tool not as a test, but as a flashlight. A deep dive into how we use this nuanced, real-world measure of executive function to illuminate the specific points of friction in a person's daily life.
A guide to understanding how we map a person's unique sensory landscape. This is the first step in deconstructing meltdowns, shutdowns, and burnout by honoring the body's reality.
Part of: The Science Hub | Explore the Full Enlitens Interview Model
No. While this model was architected from the ground up to meet the complex needs of neurodivergent individuals who have been failed by the traditional system, its core principles are universally human. It is, at its heart, a trauma-informed, strengths-based, and neurobiologically-grounded approach. It is profoundly effective for anyone with a history of complex trauma, anyone who has felt chronically misunderstood, or anyone who is simply tired of the pathologizing bulls*hit of the mainstream mental health world. It's a human-affirming model, period.
The full Enlitens Interview, from start to finish, is typically conducted over two or three sessions, which is standard for most comprehensive psychological assessments. The beauty of the modular design, however, is its flexibility. You don't always need to run the entire protocol. A skilled clinician can pull out a single module—like the "Social Debrief" or the "Cognitive Walk-Through"—to use as a powerful, targeted intervention within a standard 50-minute therapy session. The full interview is a deep dive; the individual modules are tactical tools for everyday use.
Fuck no. The names, the science, the theory—that's all for you, the clinician. It's the essential knowledge you need to understand the "why" behind what you're doing. For the client, the language should be simple, human, and collaborative. You'd never say, "Now I'm going to conduct a phenomenological inquiry." You'd say, "Let's set aside the story for a second. What was that feeling like in your body?" The model gives you the expert foundation; your own humanity provides the delivery.
These guides are your first step toward building a new toolkit. The next step is learning how to use them with a guide who gets it.
Burnout is a physiological state of nervous system collapse, not a personal failure. The masking-to-burnout pipeline is linear — more masking, more damage....
Masking isn't 'acting normal.' It's a three-stage survival process with real neurological costs. A field manual for coming in from the cold....
Co-regulation is the mechanism that builds secure attachment. Your child's nervous system borrows stability from yours — that's why we start with you....
Your child is in crisis and the system says wait 8 months. That's negligence. A guide to faster, therapeutic assessment in St. Louis....
Where the money goes, why insurance denies coverage, and how to navigate the 'superbill shell game' for ADHD and autism testing reimbursement....
You got your assessment results. Now what? A practical guide to turning self-knowledge into real change — without getting stuck in analysis paralysis....
Physiological synchrony correlates with outcomes. Your 'gut feeling' about a bad therapist isn't anxiety — it's your nervous system detecting the gap....
Cognition-oriented therapies alone are insufficient for trauma. Bottom-up, body-based interventions are essential when your nervous system is hijacked....
Your nervous system evaluates safety without conscious awareness. A hierarchical therapist triggers defense — not healing. We collaborate instead....
Post-diagnosis, individuals hit a 'support cliff.' This guide bridges from your diagnosis to the college and workplace accommodations you deserve....
Dopamine signals prediction errors. Your brain allocates energy based on perceived reward — and corporate busywork generates zero signal....
Environments without psychological safety trigger fight-flight-freeze. My ER years forged a crisis approach built on co-regulation, not containment....
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Diagnostic invalidation is real. A guide for those terrified an assessment will deny their reality — your experience is never up for debate....
Storytelling is a primary adaptation for prosocial behavior. Compassion isn't a 'soft skill' — it's biological armor embedded in their cells....
You hold it together all day, then come home paralyzed. This isn't a moral failing — it's executive function collapse. Here's why and what helps....
You've done the deep work in therapy, but daily life is still chaos. You don't need more talk — you need a toolkit. Executive function coaching explained....
Tired of your week being a mess? This isn't therapy. It's a practical guide to building the systems and tools you need to get the job done. Just focus....
That paralysis right before you click 'schedule'? It's not weakness. It's your nervous system doing its job. A guide to the Wall of Awful and through it....
Is your home a graveyard of empty planners and failed apps? You're not lazy — you're a scientist. The data is clear: neurotypical tools don't work for you....
Prediction errors drive learning and memory updating. A therapist who only echoes your patterns can never trigger the mismatch your brain needs to change....
Physiological synchrony between client and therapist predicts outcomes. The 'vibe check' isn't a gimmick — it's the most evidence-based first step....
Allostatic load drives breakdown. How to heal when the trauma is ongoing — a neuroscience-backed guide for co-parenting warriors still in the storm....
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Your kid builds LEGO universes for hours but can't focus on homework? This isn't a behavior problem. The neuroscience of the ADHD paradox explained....
A late ADHD or autism diagnosis after divorce isn't demolition. It's the missing blueprint explaining your survival — a guide to rebuilding....
Epistemic injustice causes mental health inequities — compounded by intersectionality. 'Affirming' is not a feeling. It's a measurable clinical competency....
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The relational model is the single most robust predictor of outcomes. A therapist with a pulse beats a blank screen every time. Here's how we work....
Epistemic injustice directly causes mental health inequities. If you're teaching your therapist about your brain, you're in the wrong room....
Co-regulation is one of the most energy-intensive tasks a human can perform. Your burnout as a partner isn't weakness — it's resource bankruptcy....
Worried assessment will traumatize your child? A guide to the neuroscience of neuroception — how we create biological safety that unlocks authentic data....
Girls and women mask ADHD at high cost. A guide to translating neurodivergent strengths in job interviews and advocating for accommodations....
You're not a liar. You're a survivor. Every mask was a brilliant adaptive tool. A research-backed guide to reclaiming your identity after late diagnosis....
Neuroplasticity is lifelong — your brain changes at any age. 'Can't teach an old dog new tricks' is a lie. Here are the blueprints for new roads....
A 2025 study confirms the system fails when it ignores parents. Research shows parental 'resistance' is historically significant — not difficult....
Told you're overreacting about your child? Your nervous system evaluates risk unconsciously. Parental instinct is backed by neuroception science....
Your parents don't believe in ADHD? Communication breakdown is mutual — the Double Empathy Problem. A guide to using science as your translator....
The ADOS-2 and standard diagnostic tools are fundamentally biased. A $4,000 assessment on a biased test isn't expertise — it's a tax on desperation....
Tired of reports listing your 'deficits'? We are too. How our strengths-based Brain Guide works — designed for you, not your insurance company....
Your nervous system has documented sensory gating differences. You can 'pass' in a loud world, but you pay for it later. The sensory hangover explained....
Coaching should make itself obsolete. A manifesto against endless therapy. Our coaching is a short-term boot camp to give you skills — not a life sentence....
Neuroception detects safety subconsciously. Forcing you to 'prove' financial struggle is a neuroceptive threat triggering the shame you're healing....
Emotional safety is a non-negotiable prerequisite for healing. Financial transparency isn't a 'nice policy' — it's a clinical intervention....
Your social battery is real — a measure of finite cognitive resources drained by three neurological forces: sensory gating, masking, and hypervigilance....
The prohibitive cost is the greatest barrier to diagnosis. The superbill is your weapon to claw back the money the system owes you....
Worried therapy will be scary for your child? Co-regulation is the biological foundation. A practical, strengths-based script for the conversation....
ADHD is an Executive Function Disorder. The insurance company's confusing portal is a direct tax on your most impaired capacity. We handle it....
Terrified to turn on your camera? Don't clean up. Your 'chaos' is valuable clinical data, and telehealth assessment is accurate....
Not all therapy credentials are equal. A guide to what LPC, LCSW, PhD, and PsyD actually mean — and why specialization matters more than any letters....
Predatory coaching targets the neurodivergent community. The difference between therapist and coach is licensure, ethics, and liability....
The therapeutic alliance predicts outcomes more than any technique. This call is about whether our nervous systems can connect — not about locking you in....
Emotional safety is a prerequisite for engagement. Our pricing model isn't about business — it's a clinical tool to keep your nervous system safe....
Post-diagnosis, individuals are abandoned at a 'support cliff.' An 8-month waitlist isn't popularity — it's a system designed to extinguish your momentum....
Sticker charts don't work. Co-regulation is the mechanism for secure attachment. Stop being a tactician and become the safe harbor your child needs....
You can't talk a nervous system out of a state it wasn't talked into. Memory reconsolidation requires safety first — not narrative force. Here's why....
The ADHD tax is not a cute meme. It's a real financial drain bleeding you dry. Understanding the late fees, impulse buys, and why therapy is the best ROI....
The Double Empathy Problem is a mutual gap, not a deficit in your loved one. An AuDHD therapist is a bridge — fluent in both neurological languages....
Epigenetic changes from early trauma are self-sustaining with real impact on your stress system. Your symptoms are the data that proves it was real....